A third sister shared her story. She was raised in a single-parent family. Before she knew Christ, she was introverted, stubborn, selfish, apathetic to others, and would never think of helping others. She came here as an “overseas bride”, as it was an arranged marriage in which her relatives in Panama would pay for the fees for her to come, but in return she would pay them back over time after she married a man introduced by them.
After the wedding they moved to a small town to operate a convenience store. She thought her husband would remit the monthly payments to her relative. Little did she knew that he did not send in a single repayment. It wasn’t until much later when her relative travelled 7 hours by bus to reprimand her for swindling him. Then she found out that the man whom she had trusted with her life had cheated her. They had a heated argument, after which relationships deteriorated to such an extent that she felt the only way out was for her to run away with her small son.
Her neighbor heard about her problems and reached out to her. Frightened, feeling insecure, she stepped into a church with her 3-year-old for the first time. But to her surprise the people in church was a huge contrast to her own family, as different as day and night. Her own husband, the man who was closest to her, betrayed her. Her relatives thought that she had conspired with her husband to defraud them of thousands of dollars. Those whom she had relied on failed miserably when it come to money. She had been abandoned and now had nothing. In contrast, the church people were very sympathetic and tried to help in whatever way they can. God used the church sisters to embrace her when she was down.
That was several years ago. Now she lives with her 8-year-old son and runs a convenience store herself with hired help. Though not rich, they are self-sufficient. They are not poor such that they put God’s name to shame. With the love she received from the sisters, she has learned to watch out for those in similar situations and reach out to them, giving them the same care and help so that they too can know the love of Christ. What about your church? How many are doing that? Or is your clique so tightly knit that no one but your buddies can get in? What’s your mission? Is it to save souls or to enjoy each other? Think that through, because you will have to answer to the Lord when you see Him.