(Continued from last post)
2. Paul’s not giving permission was cultural, as he lived in a patriarchal society, where women had a low position. In other words, “that was then, this is now”. Again, Paul was not a misogynist as some have claimed. The reason he gave for disallowing a woman to teach was two-fold:
a.Adam was formed first. In other words, the creation order gave the headship to man. This was God’s design.
b. The woman (Eve) was deceived when she stepped outside of Adam’s “umbrella of protection”. There is a danger when this headship is ignored.
This male headship has nothing to do with superiority or ability:
- 1 Co 11:3 But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.
While God is the head of Christ, the Son is Himself God and equal to the Father in His essence. So although man is the head of a woman, both are created in the image of God and stand equal before Him.
- Gen 2:18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.”
As you rightly pointed out, God’s design is for women to be men’s helpers. It isn’t that men are smarter or more capable, in fact often they are dumber and cause more trouble! It’s just that God chose men to the head of the family:
- Eph 5:22-24 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. 24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.
And Paul taught that this male headship applies to churches as well.
3. A third objection is that pastoring is a function, not an office in the church. God had gifted women to be caring, to be leaders, and we should not stand in the way of God calling women pastors. I believe this distinction is not warranted.
The NT recognizes two offices in the church – overseers, and deacons:
- Php 1:1 Paul and Timothy, bondservants of Christ Jesus, To all the saints in Christ Jesus who are in Philippi, including the overseers and deacons:
- 1 Tim 3:1-13
But notice the following:
- Acts 20:17-18 From Miletus he sent to Ephesus and called to him the elders of the church. 18 And when they had come to him, he said to them, …
- Acts 20:28 Be on guard for yourselves and for all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to shepherd the church of God which He purchased with His own blood.
Paul was addressing the same group in vs 18-28. So the Holy Spirit has made the elders the overseers of the church, to shepherd all the flock. The function of the office of overseer is to shepherd or pastor the flock. The terms are used interchangeably. There is no artificial distinction between the office of the elder/overseer and the function of pastoring.
4. Paul did not allow women to teach in those days because women were less educated. That’s true then, but education had never been a criterion in the NT. If it were a requirement, few of the Apostles, mostly fishermen, would qualify to be elders, which was Peter’s self-designation:
1 Pet 5:1 Therefore, I exhort the elders among you, as your fellow elder and witness of the sufferings of Christ, and a partaker also of the glory that is to be revealed.
5. God called women to lead in other Scriptures e.g.
Judges 4:4 Now Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lappidoth, was judging Israel at that time.
2 Kings 22:14 So Hilkiah the priest, Ahikam, Achbor, Shaphan, and Asaiah went to Huldah the prophetess, … (Also 2 Chron 34:22)
Lk 2:36 And there was a prophetess, Anna the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. …
Acts 18:26 and he (Apollos) began to speak out boldly in the synagogue. But when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him aside and explained to him the way of God more accurately.
So why can’t women lead in churches? Obviously, God calls women as well as men to serve Him in various capacities, but the examples given are not elders/overseers/pastors. Is God unfair? Of course not. It is His sovereignty. He calls whoever He wills. It is just that in His design, He gave the leadership to men. For instance, can the other eleven tribes accuse God of being unfair in choosing only Levites to serve Him as priests? After all, they are equally capable. Can’t they become priests if they wanted to? No. God did not call them to that role. They can aspire to many other roles, but not priests.
There are other objections or opinions which I will not go into. But in summary, after considering relevant passages and “pro” and “con” arguments, my conclusion is that God had appointed men to be elders-overseers-pastors. In short, I believe in a complementarian view of the role of men versus women in the church. I do not subscribe to an egalitarian view in which all roles are open to both men and women. Please inform me if you find my reasoning flawed, for which I would be grateful.