Q. We usually pray like this:
- Please give me a good doctor with wisdom to heal me.
- Please give me a good doctor with wisdom to give me good medicine.
- Please give wisdom to the surgeon to do a good job in the operation.
- Please give me a good hospital to go to.
- Please let me be accepted into xxx hospital because it has good equipment.
- Please give me Dr. xx because he is the best in his field.
These all sound so arrogant, teaching God how to heal us. Please advise!
The examples you cited show that the person praying thinks he knows better and even dares to dictate to God what outcomes he wants. It is the opposite of “not as I will, but as You will.”
Let us review a few well-known cases in the Bible:
- 2 Kings 20:1-3 In those days, Hezekiah became mortally ill. And Isaiah the prophet, the son of Amoz came to him and said to him, “Thus says the Lord, ‘Set your house in order, for you shall die and not live.’” Then he turned his face to the wall and prayed to the Lord, saying, “Remember now, O Lord, I beseech You, how I have walked before You in truth and with a whole heart and have done what is good in Your sight.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly.
All Hezekiah did was he asked God to remember that he had been faithful in following Him. There were no instructions for God.
- 2 Co 12:8-9 Concerning this, I implored the Lord three times that it might leave me. And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
Paul prayed to the Lord three times that the thorn in the flesh might be removed. He did not specify the means. The Lord did not grant him his request, yet Paul was content with whatever the Lord decided.
Many people in the Gospels come to the Lord for healing. Their petitions are limited to asking for mercy to be healed. No one dares to specify what method Jesus should use.
There is one case in the OT in which Naaman expected his healing to be done in a certain way, but God healed him differently:
- 2 Kings 5:10-11 Elisha sent a messenger to him, saying, “Go and wash in the Jordan seven times, and your flesh will be restored to you, and you will be clean.” But Naaman was furious and went away and said, “Behold, I thought, ‘He will surely come out to me and stand and call on the name of the Lord his God, and wave his hand over the place and cure the leper.’
Naaman’s expectations did not matter. What mattered was that he followed Elisha’s instructions.
So, my advice is, “Let God be God.” Just ask in faith and leave the results to Him. He may heal you according to your faith, or, He may withhold healing to train you. There is no need for us to be in control. We never were.